Unbecoming to Become

Harnessing the Power of Healing and Creativity to Rewrite Our Lives

If someone had told me years ago that life — my life, your life, all of humanity’s life — is a process of becoming, I wouldn’t have understood. The idea that what we are taught at an early age shapes our beliefs, our patterns, and ultimately our lives, would have sounded abstract, maybe even impossible. But today, it makes perfect sense.

Everything I was taught in my formative years, every belief ingrained in me, led to the thoughts that built the life I’ve lived. For years, I wandered in the shadow of these beliefs, not realizing they were the architects of my reality. The joy, the brokenness, the healing — all of it stems from the foundation of thoughts formed by what I learned as a child. It’s a wild revelation, one that only hit me after years of unlearning and rebuilding. It’s why I write now, with a purpose that feels both humbling and electrifying: to take the broken pieces of my life and turn them into something that heals, inspires, and creates.

The Awakening

We all live in the tension between what we’ve been taught and what we can create. For a long time, I didn’t take responsibility for my own life. I blamed circumstances, people, and even the universe. But life doesn’t work that way. The lessons came…